AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Dating can be challenging anywhere — but as any single New Yorker will tell you, dating in NYC is a whole other beast. For starters, no one moves to the Big Apple to fall in love despite what every cheesy rom-com tells you. That's just smart New Yorker math for you. But when you're up against busy schedules that often conflict i. To help you find a match in the most time efficient way possible, we've asked a few dating experts to share their best tips and advice for using apps to find love in New York City.