My name is Alex. I am a twenty-one-year-old African American woman. I date interracially and thought I would shed some light on the subject for those moving into it as well. I got the inspiration from two different incidents.
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A kind, smart man who moves me, might be able to rock with me, regardless of race or ethnicity. The vast majority of my Black girlfriends exclusively and purposely date Black men, so I get a lot of questions about my UN-friendly dating roster and most of those questions are about the white dudes. Seeing specific movies is not a dating requirement for me. You better know and love Stevie Wonder, though. Then there are two troubling statements that I often hear. I find this to be problematic because everything about it is wrong.
I predict that most men in the West will have had at least one romantic encounter with a girl of a different race within the next 20 years. So how does a man go about handling interracial dating the right way? Moreover, since masculine-feminine roles are more traditional in other parts of the world, as long as you present yourself as gentlemen with strong masculine values and some level of substance, women of nearly any race will welcome your approach and at least give you a chance to show what you have to offer. These are mindsets that you should get rid of and actions you should avoid if you want to be in the right mind state and have the right process for partaking in interracial dating. Walking through the grocery store a couple of days ago, while grabbing various items of produce, I noticed an interracial couple — a white man and black woman, with child — in the corner grabbing broccoli.
Love comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. And, sometimes, in relationships with differing colors —ethnicities, questions and concerns about race can cause friction in relationships that are, otherwise, perfectly smooth. Boundaries need to be set and restrictions need to be made. Keep your admiration individualized.